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| Simple Psychology For Attracting A Girl |
| Written by Jonas Michels |
| Sunday, 30 May 2010 07:52 |
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We've all had it happen...
We've all had it happen... You're attracted to a girl. The only problem is... She isn't physically attracted to you. Can you do anything about it? Many experts will tell you that you need to be realistic about the cards you've been dealt - if a woman doesn't find you sexy, there's nothing you can do about it. Don't do this. You are cutting yourself short. Regardless of your physical appearance, you can use a few simple psychological tricks to generate attraction in her. One of my favorite is called a "Tension Loop." It was invented by the world famous seducer Swinggcat. A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you. Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week's show. Within the context of dating and flirting, this tension becomes sexualized. My favorite Swinggcat Tension Loop is Push-Pull. Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally Push a girl away from you and then emotionally Pull her back in. Each Push sparks emotional tension and each Pull releases it. Let us take a look at an example... Compliment a woman with, "You have the most stunning smile I've seen tonight." She'll gush, "Thank you." Then say, "Actually you have the fourth best smile I've seen tonight. I'm gonna call you number four." She'll demand, "I wanna be number one." Respond with, "Because you're feisty, you just moved up to # 3." She may complain, "But I want to be number one." Chide, "If you keep complaining I'm demoting you back down to number four. About the Author: If you'd like to learn other Seduction Tips, I recommend checking out Swinggcat. The man is a true master of Seduction. |