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Tips And Secrets To Attract Women
Written by Alex Decoto   
Monday, 05 July 2010 07:53
I'm guessing you're want to learn to attract women? Then, you have to hear what I'm about to share This is why I am here to show you all the secrets to attracting women.
by AlexDecoto


I'm guessing you're want to learn to attract women? Then, you have to hear what I'm about to share This is why I am here to show you all the secrets to attracting women.

The secret about these secrets is that they seem so simple, so vague, so obvious, that most guys can't believe its possible that it can be this simple. I caution you ahead of time against this kind of thinking. Don't be tempted to think these secrets are not powerful, because that's what 99% of guys do, and that's why they never effectively attract women.

1) Not Giving A Flying (whatever)

What do I mean by this? The thing is my friend, women chase jerks like crazy, while rejecting nice guys left and right. The thing the first group all have in common is that they're indifferent. They don't care if they get a woman or not. They don't care if a woman likes them or not. A jerk lives his life for himself, and to a woman that's super hot.

You can try to deny this truth, or try to find faults with it, but you know its true deep down. You know that women are drawn to nonchalance like a drug. Its something women are biologically evolved to be attracted to, science has shown this. You can either do what works, and what women want, or keep avoiding it. Your choice.

2) Being Cool

Yes, I know it sounds too simple to state, yet I have to pound it in because guys like to pretend its not there. Most men act as if the foundations are just to be known, not applied and delay developing them. An ironic example is where a guy will focus on some tiny aspect like getting amazing clothes and obsess with it, yet, he only has one circle of friends, and always goes to just one place with not much women. Can you call this a fun, enjoyable lifestyle that makes women go woo? What works is if you actually get that cool, interesting lifestyle first.

If you live a life that's unique and exciting, people can just tell, and they'll acting all attracted around you in a way you wouldn't believe. Its really that you become different (believe it or not), you will be a different person. You will behave and interact like a different person.

3) Not Trying To Hook Up

Have you ever been frustrated by how confusing women are? At the same time they can be complaining how there are no real men left, and no man is taking an initiative and asking her out. At the same time, she complains about the guys she brutally shut down, and how did they dare hit on her or ask her out.

The secret behind this confusion is that in the human mating process, the women make the first non-verbal move. The man does the formal, verbal moves. In other words, any successful pick up will involve a woman who's hit on a man first, by showing sexual or flirting interest first.

I'm sure you have noticed how women seem contradictory on this thing. They complain when guys approach them trying to get laid. At the very same time, when guys don't give them attention, they're unhappy too. How do you explain this The factor you don't take into consideration is if it was the right guy or not. What a woman resents is a guy she's not attracted to or given signals to, hitting on her. What she wants is to be social with a man first, even if its just a formality, before the man starts flirting.

This is why all the best naturals in the world have in common that they simply "give women a chance". Like sure, he will approach a bunch of hot women. But he keeps it social, and cool, while indifferent and showing no interest past social. He lets the woman do the chasing. He almost does the "formal moves" with a kind of "ok if I must" kind of attitude, ok ok, since you insist.

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